The Importance of Family Support During Cancer Treatment
When my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer, our lives changed drastically. The vibrant, energetic woman who was always there for me suddenly needed my support. As a 9-year-old, I was terrified and confused. But through this journey, I learned the importance of family support during cancer treatment.
The Diagnosis
The day my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer was one of the scariest days of my life. We cried together, and I was filled with fear. I didn’t understand what was happening, but I knew I wanted to help her.
The Treatment
My mom explained her treatment plan to me. She would be going through chemotherapy, which could make her hair fall out. But she assured me that this was a sign that the treatment was working. She promised she would get better and always be there for me and the rest of our family.
The Struggles
The days following her chemo treatments were tough. She was nauseous, tired, and couldn’t even get out of bed. I was worried and couldn’t focus on anything else. My dad tried to distract me, but it wasn’t the same without my mom.
The Support
My family suggested I talk to a therapist about my fears. I was hesitant at first, but it turned out to be a great decision. I learned coping mechanisms like deep breathing and throwing ice in the backyard to calm my nerves. I also found comfort in the support of my friends and my mom’s friends.
The Recovery
Finally, the day came when my mom rang the bell, signifying the end of her chemo treatments. The doctor said she was doing well, and I was overjoyed. We could finally go back to doing the things we loved, like playing games, walking our dog, and getting manicures together.
The Lesson
Going through this experience taught me the importance of family support during cancer treatment. It’s a tough journey, but with positivity, resilience, bravery, and love, you can get through it. I’m proud to say that we did.
Remember, you’re not alone. Reach out to your support system, talk about your fears, and find ways to cope. Together, we can face anything.
About the Author: Julia Penan is a high school student in Westchester, New York. She wrote this post to help other families who are going through something similar. She enjoys spending time with her sister and brother, playing tennis, going snow skiing, and baking. Rocky, the family Bernedoodle, stayed by Julia and her mom’s side during all the tough times.